Being a BOSS

Working in a restaurant is a hard thing to do. It pays OK but my feet is killing me . After a long and busy day at work the next day i can barely walk . My back is aching ....my kidneys say "NO MORE" and i don't have the hands that i used to have in the past . Now after my boss opened his new restaurant everybody wants to be a little boss over the heads of others. My question is : WHY? What is the point of being a boss in restaurant beside money? Being a boss requires lots of skills, especially people skills and lots of patience when talking and listening to the people under you.
When you become a little boss in a firm ....or a restaurant ...if things go wrong you take the blame. It's your fault because you couldn't take the lead and organize your employees .
I have to admit i would love to be some kind of boss but i also know that i do not have the skills for it. I am always nice to people...when i need something to be done i ask politely and perhaps some of my work mates interpret it as silly and naive. Well ...Hey ...this is me. This is how my mother raised me to be...and i will not change for any other position and money my boss would give to me.